7 Reasons to Turn Down a Marriage Proposal

Don't think I'm against marriage or anything, because I do want to get married. This was a prompt from the internet so here it goes.

7 Reasons to Turn Down a Marriage Proposal:

1. You don't love the person: Well this one is plain and simple. You shouldn't love someone who you don't love! Why would you want to spend your life wishing you could love the guy, but just can't. Its kind of stupid to spend thousands of dollars on a wedding, when a divorce seems near in the future. Really people, save your money and find someone you love.

2. The person doesn't love YOU: While this is almost the same as number 1, it has a twist. If a guy doesn't love you, why would you want to be stuck with that the rest of your life?

3. The person is immature: Sure you may love the person, and that's great, but if the person doesn't know how to be grown up, then how do you plan to have a future with them? You can't raise kids, one including a husband or a wife. There should be two parents in the household. Wait until they can play grown up first, then get married.

4. You don't know the person: All those couples that get drunk, meet in Vegas, and get drunk that get married are CRAZY! Why would you marry someone you don't know?! The person could be a complete lunatic! Get to know the person first, please! Let's NOT increase the divorce rate.

5. The person can't hold a job and contribute equally to the marriage: You don't want to marry someone who keeps getting fired from jobs. What does that say about them? Exactly.

6. The person is abusive or harmful (verbal or physical): This one is just common sense. If you wanted to be a punching bag or torn down, then you need to be in a mental hospital.

7. Already married: If you or the person you are dating is married, how does that look for your future. If he cheats on his wife with you, who's to say he won't cheat on you? You're probably just a piece of booty that he knows he can persuade into getting some. Don't do it cuz its wrong too. Think of how the other woman, or man, feels.